Dating he stopped talking to me
I had no idea why he had just stopped speaking to me out of nowhere, and I was even more confused when he texted me a month later asking to hang out like nothing had happened. By that point, I had met my current boyfriend, and I didn’t care about this dude, so I told him off and moved past it. Having a guy pull the vanishing act on you isn’t just hurtful and confusing – it’s also embarrassing.I hated having to explain to my friends that he had just cut me out of his life.It’s reasonable to interpret that as meaning you’ve agreed to not date anyone or sleep with anyone else, but I want to ask: when you agreed to be exclusive, how did this come about?How clear was his side of the agreement to being committed?
My suggestion is rather than trying to “solve the mystery”, assume that things are the way you want them to be. Worrying what the other person thinks usually just creeps them out…As such, some of the comments (which I have preserved) bring up points that I have since addressed in this revision.Right off the top, you mentioned that you and he have agreed to be exclusive.I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.